In Memory: Gordan & Pet Loss Information
Last month, we received some devastating news. Gordan, a dog we rescued from being euthanized last fall, had unexpectedly crossed the rainbow bridge. Gordan was a goofy guy; he seemed to be a shepherd/corgi mix. He was a shepherd with short legs, making him very unique. He was silly and full of life. After a couple months in foster care, we met Janie and her partner Brandon, who wanted to adopt Gordan. They welcomed him home by winter, and fell in love with him.
He became a huge part of their lives. When we asked Janie to share a little more about their time with Gordan, this is what she shared:
“Our boy Gordan was the best thing to happen to us. He was the best dog and silliest guy. He was never far from you and would nibble you when you were sad, that was his way of cheering you up. He loved balls, squeaky balls, basketballs, volleyballs, and soccer balls. He also loved gourmet food (meat) and sweet potatoes but hated fruits! He also enjoyed sniffing EVERYTHING. I’m sure he’s still continuing to do that over the rainbow bridge.”
We are heartbroken for this tragic loss that happened far too soon. We send our love to Janie and Brandon, and we encourage you to send them healing energy. We are incredibly grateful that Janie and Brandon adopted Gordan and loved him so much during his remaining time here.
We thought this was a great time to share some additional information on pet loss:
Losing a pet can be as painful as losing a human loved one, yet the emotional toll of pet loss is often underestimated. As society becomes more aware of the deep bonds people form with their pets, it's crucial to recognize and validate the grief experienced by pet owners. For many of us dog lovers, pets are not just animals; they are furry family members who offer unconditional love, companionship, and joy. They play an incredibly important role in our lives, and when they leave us, their absence is deeply felt.
Grief is a difficult emotion to process and looks different for everyone. What’s important is to take care of oneself (emotionally, physically, mentally) or seek grief counseling when one has lost a pet. It is important to have a support network of trusted family and friends who understand the bond shared. Support from one’s community can be as simple and practical as helping with everyday tasks, such as meal preparation or running errands.
Many communities offer pet loss support groups and counseling services to help dog owners navigate these difficult times. Professional therapy for pet loss can provide valuable support and ease the grieving timeline. Organizations such as the Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (https://www.aplb.org/) offer resources and support for grieving pet owners.
Celebrating your furry companion’s life by creating a memorial can also help the grieving process. Memorials can range from planting a tree in their honor, to creating a scrapbook filled with fun and precious memories, or holding a small ceremony with loved ones.
Check out this memorial Janie and Brandon created for Gordan:
Here are a couple more photos of sweet Gordan, in our hearts forever.